Well let's see-I'm raising teenagers and? She got mouthy-I told her I'd she didn't like it? She could leave. She was told to come home and she wouldn't. She learned so well from your example. Now-would YOU like to explain why you don't send your kids the Child Support? Or the Court Ordered Retirement? Hmmmm. Don't start threatening me either. You have done NOTHING to raise them. Oh-would YOU like to explain how you allow my parents to give the boys money and not HER? Hmmmm. You see through all of your ABUSE-my parents psycho abuse and your illiterate parents uncanny avoidance of what has REALLY been done to my kids and I? I deal with the FALL OUT. So-she is being a BRAT! Period. Do a survey if parents. It's pretty common and requires tough love-something you know nothing about. She has been told that if she so chooses to adopt your legacy of insanity and dysfunction it is her life. Now-you might want to start supporting your kids in a reasonable and timely manner-because you see? If you REALLY cared? You would not play your abusive games which stresses this whole family unit out. Asshole.
- 2/18, 4:22pm
OK, so what you're telling me is she got "mouthy" and decided to just up and leave so she can be mouthy. And on top of that you told her to come back home and she wouldnt. I wanna make sure I'm understanding you correctly?
It's clearly written. Yep. And she is playing victim. She is staying with trailer trash. SHE is lucky I haven't called the Sheriff on her ass and that family? They are lucky I don't charge THEM with parental interference. They haven't even been decent enough to call and say where she is. She called the one friend of hers that I don't like-she is sneaky-not the Hamptons-or Maya. Interesting. Why? Because they KNOW I'm a great mother and wouldn't 'hide' her out. So she is playing victim and exaggerating and I'm not apologizing to reacting to a week of surgery-no child support and their incessant demands and spoiled ISH. She thinks the grass is greener? She will learn. And until she can grow up-not MOOCH off of a family who is obviously dysfunctional to be a part of a teenagers' angst? She is going to have to learn. I make her pay for her phone. She has a job. She gave me money today (after 3 months of NOT paying) and said "Here's your money". MY MONEY? I said "No girl-this is YOUR money for YOUR phone". Like she is doing me a favor! Good God. Her BS started when I told her she was old enough to pay her portion. I made her pay for her gas she used. She didn't like it. Well sorry about her luck but that's life. And I am tasked to teach it. She said one day "Did YOU have to pay for your phone when you were MY age?" Bahaha! I said "Well-you see-we didn't HAVE cell phones and we actually had to SHARE! Imagine that! But I bought ALL my own clothes-even my deodorant. And guess what? I was prepared for LIFE unlike your generation". So they all pissed me off one night-starting with Romy saying "What's for dinner?" I said "Lasagna" (After making a homemade-from scratch-chicken noodle soup for the next day-just days post operation). He wasn't happy. I said "Since when do you not like lasagna?". Now keep in mind it was Stouffers frozen. Want to know what he said? He said "I don't like it frozen. I want it homemade". Ummmm? WHAT? I lost it. How dare they. Then your little Princess comes home asked what happened. I told her. She says "oh. Well I need the computer". Translation: gimme gimme to make me happy. An argument ensued. I told her ( which a BILLION parents have all said-so don't even try threatening me with faggot Brent Hall) "If you don't like it? Leave". Next thing I know? She calls that girl and left. Was my verbiage perfect? No. Was hers? No. A classic argument between a teenager and a parent. Problem is? These kids have watched for YEARS while you took EVERYTHING. Didn't pay child support. Made me lose jobs. Went without EVERYTHING for them because NONE of you people would and they expect it. I'm expected to go without anything I want or need so THEY can have and they watch me go without and watch YOU screw me over so YOU can buy new cars and motorcycles. They learned this sick idea that I am a sacrificial lamb for everyone else's happiness and I'm supposed to be a 'martyr'. Well the problem with that? Is it is sick and twisted and dysfunctional and? They will have a life filled with drama if they expect that of others. So-you can listen to her 17 year old 'version' all you like. They learned it from you and no good parent-in their right mind-is going to be stupid enough to allow it.
- Jennifer Specht
And, so, if you would like to co-parent you will support me in this because she has to learn that trying to be 'dominant' and in 'control' so she doesn't have responsibilities and rules won't do her any favors. Running off to live with some family-no worries about rent-food etc. isn't reality. It's up to you.
I saw it in Alex's group. NINETY PER CENT couldn't handle LIFE. Dropped out of College. Arrested. Babies everywhere. Even he royally screwed up for awhile. I warned him. He had to learn the hard way. He's back in school on track to graduate. These kids aren't PREPARED and I am doing everything I can to prepare them. But she thinks I'm being 'crazy'. No. Cray Cray is not expecting her to pay for her own phone and gas and NOT demand I drop everything for her immediate gratification. And? She is staying with a dumb ass couple who have no clue obviously. Oh well. Not my problem. My responsibility to her is to have her as ready as possible for this big, bad world
She kept saying "Do you want me to come home?"????? Ummmm....I said "you were TOLD to get your ass home and you wouldn't. And until we can sit down and I set the ground rules for respect and responsibilities? No. Because then you will just black mail me with this and every time something doesn't go your 'way' you will threaten to leave". Unbelievable.
- 2/18, 8:34pm
Well, coming from you? That is to be expected. Your actions have been deplorable. And? Being that you aren't here and have witnessed none of this? You sound like the fool you are and simply looking for a way to be the 'hero'. Which is fine. I have taken care of the 'problem' of your irresponsible and apprehensive lack of regard for the responsibility to your children. So, I'm so very sorry but I WILL take the money you owe with or without your co-operation. Have fun with that. Also? Should you choose to play your little game in Court? I have 2 things to say. 1) I'm living so under the poverty line-with CONCRETE evidence you ruined my career-my ability to work-the VIOLATION of my Fifth Amendment RIGHT to my property-that you will MAYBE get $50 bucks out of me a month and? 2) take these kids again? I go to Canada! Haha! Good LUCK getting a DIME from me. The lovely thing? I still get your Retirement! Which equals close to the Child Support that you already can't afford. So-you and your daughter enjoy your drama. The blind leading the blind. What a joke!
Haha! Do yourself a FAVOR and brush up on your COMPREHENSION skills College BOIiii! That is NOT what I said
I never said that. Your attempt at 'paraphrasing' may impress a Prof but you need to take your imagination and apply it to your school work raising children is never 'easy' but I am always up for the challenge. I offered you to co parent-you jump to conclusions-nothing has changed-same shit-different day with you. WHAT I am saying is challenge me? You won't win because you STILL have to pay.
Stop complaining? I didn't contact you! I didn't complain to you. You asked what happened I told you. Get a job? I had a job you dumb fuck! And then had medical issues to deal with-not to mention the FACT that you RUINED my career with your BITCH ASS LIES. You see JErome-no matter how much you lie? Me, you and GOD know the truth. I won't even get started on the fact that you have no job skills and no job-and went back to School to hide from the reality of the REAL World. YOU are now part of the 98% of the population now-not the TWO PER CENT that is Military living in La La Land-Welcome to the REAL World Home Boy-the FACT that this economy is flailing and jobs are hard to come by, the FACT that Fort Knox has essentially CLOSED-the FACT that a Domino Effect occurs and jobs dry up-so.... If the FACT that their 'Dad' is an asshole and did what you did to me? And the FACT that there are few jobs available is being 'Bad' example to my children? Well then so be it. Because the FACT remains that YOU are a deadbeat-YOU don't pay your child support on time? You lie. You cheat. Well THAT would only lead to one conclusion-that YOU are a horrendous 'example' to your children. Period. Now, go feel the wind on your face and enjoy your motorcycle while you can. You might consider getting a JOB (sorry that might take away from your FB 'Brodie' page) so that when you pay me? They won't repossess it. Karma is such a wonderful joy in life. One last thing? She turns 18 in 2 months. Get your jollies while you can. You always were such a dumb ass with absolutely NO GAME or ability to out smart me. Go on with your 'bad' self. I WILL promise to beat you before you even know it. Just saying.
I put out in the street? Hilarious. Prove it. Alex? Ummm he is grown and I sure as HELL DID lay down the law. So, your point is? Well obviously you don't have a point.
I never asked you for sympathy. Stop your imagination. You are absolutely pathetic and offer you NO straws to grasp. You have to make things up to justify your insanity.
- 2/18, 10:07pm
Feel sorry for me? PLEASE. I got AWAY from you and pride myself on my inner strength and stamina. Good for you both. The Father who LIED about his OWN daughter-made it a part of RECORD you tried to have her committed-put them ALL through HELL-and now you two Nut Cases bond? Well good for you both. You will just go round and round in circles of absolute nonsense. All the power to you. Get a JOB deadbeat or face repossession because no matter what? I get my money!
Well Jennifer was notified that I was not only seeking to have child support modified based on my new income but readjusted for 2 children since she put Madison out. Well interesting enough she called the police on our daughter and claimed she was a runaway. Madison has been out of the house since mid-January but you call the police and report her 1 week from our new court date for child support. Sorry, this isn't about your daughter "running" away. weeks ago when I found out I contacted her and to ensure she stayed ahead (Madison left in January and she posted about it in March) she wrote a message on Facebook taking credit for Madison leaving. Said she was "letting her spread her wings.
So Madison has been staying at a friend's SINCE JANUARY AND IT'S ALMOST APRIL and again, why call and report her a runaway if you are "letting her go to find her answers." Such a crock, this is about her wanting more money because the new amount was going to to be based on my sons and minus Moo. But naturally her followers praised her for being such a great mother.
So I contacted her today and made her an offer.
"Since all you care about is money I will pay you the new child support based on 3 kids until Madison turns 18 on 2 may then I will pay the new calculation which is what the motion is for on the 7th of April. I will do this if you allow Madison to live with Christina until she graduates. This also means you do not cause her any grief either. And so you understand, the child support will change when Madison turns 18 so you are only getting the three kids amount for the month of April. So, how about you do what's best for Madison and let her be happy her last few months of high school. Your actions these past few months are stetting the stage for your future relationship with Madison. You don't have one with your Mom. Do you really want that with your daughter? Just something to think about. So again, I will pay you for three kids until Madison turns 18 if you let her go stay and finish up school living with Christina."
Her response was typical Jennifer.
"This is hilarious. The last six years of her life was watching YOU be obsessed with money and destroying me. Good job! So you will pay the Court Ordered support until the Judge decides. Until then? You are in arrears and in violation of a Court Order to provide for your kids. Live with a friend? Please. I have a JOB and its called being a PARENT. I won't let her 'run away' just like you. What are you going to do without the Military to take you away when people start figuring out you are a FRAUD? And this is about money? What money? You owe me almost FIVE thousand dollars you criminal. Give me a break. I just feel so very sorry for my daughter when realizes you are a FAKE. It's her call. But not until she is 18. Have a lovely day you freak."
She keeps talking about money, you owe, you owe, you owe. Before it was three thousand I somehow owed her now it's FIVE thousand. So not only do I owe her, but I'm fake too. Wait, wasn't she just on Facebook bragging about how strong our daughter is and how she was letting her find herself? Yet, she called the police and said she was a runaway. This is about money plain and simple. With the new child support amounts and my retirement she will be getting just about $1,400.00. Which is what I was paying in child support minus the 19.94% of my retirement she would get. She was banking on getting $1,000.00 of my retirement and the $1,400.00 in child support.
"Evil is more apt to be stupid because it doesn't know any better." -M. Roper