She called the cops on our daughter today. A little long but well worth the read.

When I found out Jennifer put Madison out I was not happy. Moo told me she had been out a week after they returned from Xmas break. Madison insisted I not start anything as she just wanted to graduate with little to no drama. I contacted the parents of the friend she was staying with and spoke to both them. I let them know I was now in the loop on things and if they needed anything to contact me ASAP. I had promised Moo I would not start anything but I did contact Jennifer the next day and this is the conversation:

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  2/18, 3:28pm
  

  Jerome Dingle

  
  

  I would like for you to explain to me what it is that justifies you asking our daughter to leave your home?

  
  

  
  
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  2/18, 4:17pm
  

  Jennifer Specht

  
  

  Well let's see-I'm raising teenagers and? She got mouthy-I told her I'd she didn't like it? She could leave. She was told to come home and she wouldn't. She learned so well from your example. Now-would YOU like to explain why you don't send your kids the Child Support? Or the Court Ordered Retirement? Hmmmm. Don't start threatening me either. You have done NOTHING to raise them. Oh-would YOU like to explain how you allow my parents to give the boys money and not HER? Hmmmm. You see through all of your ABUSE-my parents psycho abuse and your illiterate parents uncanny avoidance of what has REALLY been done to my kids and I? I deal with the FALL OUT. So-she is being a BRAT! Period. Do a survey if parents. It's pretty common and requires tough love-something you know nothing about. She has been told that if she so chooses to adopt your legacy of insanity and dysfunction it is her life. Now-you might want to start supporting your kids in a reasonable and timely manner-because you see? If you REALLY cared? You would not play your abusive games which stresses this whole family unit out. Asshole.

  
  

  
  
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  2/18, 4:22pm
  

  Jerome Dingle

  
  

  OK, so what you're telling me is she got "mouthy" and decided to just up and leave so she can be mouthy. And on top of that you told her to come back home and she wouldnt. I wanna make sure I'm understanding you correctly?

  
  

  
  
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  2/18, 4:50pm
  

  Jennifer Specht

  
  

  It's clearly written. Yep. And she is playing victim. She is staying with trailer trash. SHE is lucky I haven't called the Sheriff on her ass and that family? They are lucky I don't charge THEM with parental interference. They haven't even been decent enough to call and say where she is. She called the one friend of hers that I don't like-she is sneaky-not the Hamptons-or Maya. Interesting. Why? Because they KNOW I'm a great mother and wouldn't 'hide' her out. So she is playing victim and exaggerating and I'm not apologizing to reacting to a week of surgery-no child support and their incessant demands and spoiled ISH. She thinks the grass is greener? She will learn. And until she can grow up-not MOOCH off of a family who is obviously dysfunctional to be a part of a teenagers' angst? She is going to have to learn. I make her pay for her phone. She has a job. She gave me money today (after 3 months of NOT paying) and said "Here's your money". MY MONEY? I said "No girl-this is YOUR money for YOUR phone". Like she is doing me a favor! Good God. Her BS started when I told her she was old enough to pay her portion. I made her pay for her gas she used. She didn't like it. Well sorry about her luck but that's life. And I am tasked to teach it. She said one day "Did YOU have to pay for your phone when you were MY age?" Bahaha! I said "Well-you see-we didn't HAVE cell phones and we actually had to SHARE! Imagine that! But I bought ALL my own clothes-even my deodorant. And guess what? I was prepared for LIFE unlike your generation". So they all pissed me off one night-starting with Romy saying "What's for dinner?" I said "Lasagna" (After making a homemade-from scratch-chicken noodle soup for the next day-just days post operation). He wasn't happy. I said "Since when do you not like lasagna?". Now keep in mind it was Stouffers frozen. Want to know what he said? He said "I don't like it frozen. I want it homemade". Ummmm? WHAT? I lost it. How dare they. Then your little Princess comes home asked what happened. I told her. She says "oh. Well I need the computer". Translation: gimme gimme to make me happy. An argument ensued. I told her ( which a BILLION parents have all said-so don't even try threatening me with faggot Brent Hall) "If you don't like it? Leave". Next thing I know? She calls that girl and left. Was my verbiage perfect? No. Was hers? No. A classic argument between a teenager and a parent. Problem is? These kids have watched for YEARS while you took EVERYTHING. Didn't pay child support. Made me lose jobs. Went without EVERYTHING for them because NONE of you people would and they expect it. I'm expected to go without anything I want or need so THEY can have and they watch me go without and watch YOU screw me over so YOU can buy new cars and motorcycles. They learned this sick idea that I am a sacrificial lamb for everyone else's happiness and I'm supposed to be a 'martyr'. Well the problem with that? Is it is sick and twisted and dysfunctional and? They will have a life filled with drama if they expect that of others. So-you can listen to her 17 year old 'version' all you like. They learned it from you and no good parent-in their right mind-is going to be stupid enough to allow it.

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  And, so, if you would like to co-parent you will support me in this because she has to learn that trying to be 'dominant' and in 'control' so she doesn't have responsibilities and rules won't do her any favors. Running off to live with some family-no worries about rent-food etc. isn't reality. It's up to you.

  
  

  
  
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  2/18, 6:42pm
  

  Jennifer Specht

  
  

  I saw it in Alex's group. NINETY PER CENT couldn't handle LIFE. Dropped out of College. Arrested. Babies everywhere. Even he royally screwed up for awhile. I warned him. He had to learn the hard way. He's back in school on track to graduate. These kids aren't PREPARED and I am doing everything I can to prepare them. But she thinks I'm being 'crazy'. No. Cray Cray is not expecting her to pay for her own phone and gas and NOT demand I drop everything for her immediate gratification. And? She is staying with a dumb ass couple who have no clue obviously. Oh well. Not my problem. My responsibility to her is to have her as ready as possible for this big, bad world

  
  

  
  
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  2/18, 6:45pm
  

  Jennifer Specht

  
  

  She kept saying "Do you want me to come home?"????? Ummmm....I said "you were TOLD to get your ass home and you wouldn't. And until we can sit down and I set the ground rules for respect and responsibilities? No. Because then you will just black mail me with this and every time something doesn't go your 'way' you will threaten to leave". Unbelievable.

  
  

  
  
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  2/18, 8:10pm
  

  Jerome Dingle

  
  

  I'm more than willing to co-parent if that is your wish. However, I can not in good conscience support your current actions. You...were and are wrong.

  
  

  
  
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  2/18, 8:34pm
  

  Jennifer Specht

  
  

  Well, coming from you? That is to be expected. Your actions have been deplorable. And? Being that you aren't here and have witnessed none of this? You sound like the fool you are and simply looking for a way to be the 'hero'. Which is fine. I have taken care of the 'problem' of your irresponsible and apprehensive lack of regard for the responsibility to your children. So, I'm so very sorry but I WILL take the money you owe with or without your co-operation. Have fun with that. Also? Should you choose to play your little game in Court? I have 2 things to say. 1) I'm living so under the poverty line-with CONCRETE evidence you ruined my career-my ability to work-the VIOLATION of my Fifth Amendment RIGHT to my property-that you will MAYBE get $50 bucks out of me a month and? 2) take these kids again? I go to Canada! Haha! Good LUCK getting a DIME from me. The lovely thing? I still get your Retirement! Which equals close to the Child Support that you already can't afford. So-you and your daughter enjoy your drama. The blind leading the blind. What a joke!

  
  

  
  
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  2/18, 8:36pm
  

  Jerome Dingle

  
  

  So...what I'm hearing is, its my turn to parent???

  
  

  
  
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  2/18, 8:38pm
  

  Jennifer Specht

  
  

  Haha! Do yourself a FAVOR and brush up on your COMPREHENSION skills College BOIiii! That is NOT what I said

  
  

  
  
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  2/18, 8:39pm
  

  Jerome Dingle

  
  

  Well, you have been saying how tough raising teenagers are, going to Canada, etc etc etc. So to me, what you are saying is its time for me to raise our kids and you need a break.

  
  

  
  
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  2/18, 8:45pm
  

  Jennifer Specht

  
  

  I never said that. Your attempt at 'paraphrasing' may impress a Prof but you need to take your imagination and apply it to your school work raising children is never 'easy' but I am always up for the challenge. I offered you to co parent-you jump to conclusions-nothing has changed-same shit-different day with you. WHAT I am saying is challenge me? You won't win because you STILL have to pay.

  
  

  
  
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  2/18, 8:49pm
  

  Jerome Dingle

  
  

  Ok...then stop complaining!! Stop whining and crying about how tough it is. Get off your ass and get a job and be a role model for our children. Because right now...you are no better than the women you used to put down.

  
  

  
  
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  2/18, 9:48pm
  

  Jennifer Specht

  
  

  Stop complaining? I didn't contact you! I didn't complain to you. You asked what happened I told you. Get a job? I had a job you dumb fuck! And then had medical issues to deal with-not to mention the FACT that you RUINED my career with your BITCH ASS LIES. You see JErome-no matter how much you lie? Me, you and GOD know the truth. I won't even get started on the fact that you have no job skills and no job-and went back to School to hide from the reality of the REAL World. YOU are now part of the 98% of the population now-not the TWO PER CENT that is Military living in La La Land-Welcome to the REAL World Home Boy-the FACT that this economy is flailing and jobs are hard to come by, the FACT that Fort Knox has essentially CLOSED-the FACT that a Domino Effect occurs and jobs dry up-so.... If the FACT that their 'Dad' is an asshole and did what you did to me? And the FACT that there are few jobs available is being 'Bad' example to my children? Well then so be it. Because the FACT remains that YOU are a deadbeat-YOU don't pay your child support on time? You lie. You cheat. Well THAT would only lead to one conclusion-that YOU are a horrendous 'example' to your children. Period. Now, go feel the wind on your face and enjoy your motorcycle while you can. You might consider getting a JOB (sorry that might take away from your FB 'Brodie' page) so that when you pay me? They won't repossess it. Karma is such a wonderful joy in life. One last thing? She turns 18 in 2 months. Get your jollies while you can. You always were such a dumb ass with absolutely NO GAME or ability to out smart me. Go on with your 'bad' self. I WILL promise to beat you before you even know it. Just saying.

  
  

  
  
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  2/18, 9:57pm
  

  Jerome Dingle

  
  

  Yes, you put our daughter out on the street. Something you never did to Alex. Now Im supposed to feel sorry for you and your choices. I know where Moo is and we talk daily. Yep 18 and graduation is around the corner. I cant wait. Have a good evening

  
  

  
  
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  2/18, 10:00pm
  

  Jennifer Specht

  
  

  I put out in the street? Hilarious. Prove it. Alex? Ummm he is grown and I sure as HELL DID lay down the law. So, your point is? Well obviously you don't have a point.

  
  

  
  

  I never asked you for sympathy. Stop your imagination. You are absolutely pathetic and offer you NO straws to grasp. You have to make things up to justify your insanity.

  
  

  
  
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  2/18, 10:07pm
  

  Jennifer Specht

  
  

  Feel sorry for me? PLEASE. I got AWAY from you and pride myself on my inner strength and stamina. Good for you both. The Father who LIED about his OWN daughter-made it a part of RECORD you tried to have her committed-put them ALL through HELL-and now you two Nut Cases bond? Well good for you both. You will just go round and round in circles of absolute nonsense. All the power to you. Get a JOB deadbeat or face repossession because no matter what? I get my money!

Well Jennifer was notified that I was not only seeking to have child support modified based on my new income but readjusted for 2 children since she put Madison out. Well interesting enough she called the police on our daughter and claimed she was a runaway. Madison has been out of the house since mid-January but you call the police and report her 1 week from our new court date for child support. Sorry, this isn't about your daughter "running" away. weeks ago when I found out I contacted her and to ensure she stayed ahead (Madison left in January and she posted about it in March) she wrote a message on Facebook taking credit for Madison leaving. Said she was "letting her spread her wings.

So Madison has been staying at a friend's SINCE JANUARY AND IT'S ALMOST APRIL and again, why call and report her a runaway if you are "letting her go to find her answers." Such a crock, this is about her wanting more money because the new amount was going to to be based on my sons and minus Moo. But naturally her followers praised her for being such a great mother.

 So I contacted her today and made her an offer.

Jennifer,
"Since all you care about is money I will pay you the new child support based on 3 kids until Madison turns 18 on 2 may then I will pay the new calculation which is what the motion is for on the 7th of April. I will do this if you allow Madison to live with Christina until she graduates. This also means you do not cause her any grief either. And so you understand, the child support will change when Madison turns 18 so you are only getting the three kids amount for the month of April. So, how about you do what's best for Madison and let her be happy her last few months of high school. Your actions these past few months are stetting the stage for your future relationship with Madison. You don't have one with your Mom. Do you really want that with your daughter? Just something to think about. So again, I will pay you for three kids until Madison turns 18 if you let her go stay and finish up school living with Christina."

Her response was typical Jennifer.

"This is hilarious. The last six years of her life was watching YOU be obsessed with money and destroying me. Good job! So you will pay the Court Ordered support until the Judge decides. Until then? You are in arrears and in violation of a Court Order to provide for your kids. Live with a friend? Please. I have a JOB and its called being a PARENT. I won't let her 'run away' just like you. What are you going to do without the Military to take you away when people start figuring out you are a FRAUD? And this is about money? What money? You owe me almost FIVE thousand dollars you criminal. Give me a break. I just feel so very sorry for my daughter when realizes you are a FAKE. It's her call. But not until she is 18. Have a lovely day you freak."

She keeps talking about money, you owe, you owe, you owe. Before it was three thousand I somehow owed her now it's FIVE thousand. So not only do I owe her, but I'm fake too. Wait, wasn't she just on Facebook bragging about how strong our daughter is and how she was letting her find herself? Yet, she called the police and said she was a runaway. This is about money plain and simple. With the new child support amounts and my retirement she will be getting just about $1,400.00. Which is what I was paying in child support minus the 19.94% of my retirement she would get. She was banking on getting $1,000.00 of my retirement and the $1,400.00 in child support. 

So, days away from court and I will head to KY on Friday to pick my daughter who feels I'm "fake" and bring her down for Spring Break. A much needed Spring Break. Just hang tough Moo Moo. You got less than 60 days until you graduate and move on to the next phase in your life. Nothing but blue sky's ahead.

"Evil is more apt to be stupid because it doesn't know any better." -M. Roper

This is too funny. 12 more days and counting.

First let me say, this is a blog which means you must actively seek it out. So I don't talk about her on Facebook but I sure will say what I want on here. So my ex-wife has gotten what she wanted, but now is refusing to simply send the paperwork off so she can get her free money. Seriously??? Who the f*& does that? What woman gets free money but is so consumed with herself that she won't even do what's necessary to get said money? Well as you can see from the email, I told her exactly what she needs to do so that she can receive the money she earned. Man, if the amount was actually based on how much she truly supported me throughout my career it would for sure be a lot less than 625.00. Because honestly...she didn't support me at all. What she did was make me miserable and feel guilty for having a career and going to schools. I choose Ft Knox so she could go to school yet she picked a school that was notorious for screwing folks over and what ended up happening to her? She got screwed with no Vaseline. And instead of getting her shit together and getting her nursing degree...she sat in self pity, drank and blamed all her failures on everyone else. She could be a freaking Nurse Practitioner by now with the amount of time she has wasted fighting and blaming me and her family. it's a shame too because she would have made an amazing nurse.
 
I'm still curious as to how her good friends don't have issue with her receiving child support in the amount of $1391.11 for the past 4 years and not even working. I've mentioned how much I've paid in child support to female friends of mine and they have all said if they were receiving what Jennifer gets, they'd be sitting pretty. Some are getting $400 for 2-3 kids for the whole month. Yet what Jennifer gets she feels is not enough. She feels I should still take care of her because in essence...that's what I'm still doing. I'm divorced, remarried yet financially I'm still taking care of her. How do I know this? She has told me several times. She has made it clear that because my child support doesn't reach her in her time, that she can't pay rent or her bills. She actually said that her electricity was gonna get shut off and it's my fault. Her super smart friends jump right on the band wagon with her. Never once asking, "Umm if your working then child support is a supplement to your income." or better yet, WHY ARE YOU RELYING ON CHILD SUPPORT TO PAY YOUR BILLS??? Isn't child support for the children's welfare? Wouldn't you have to pay rent, buy food, pay your electric bill if your children were living with their father? I will and have always taken care of my kids but even if she got a job at McDonald's...she'd still be living pretty good. It's sad she has sooo many friends not one of them is willing to tell her to woman up and get her shit together. Actually, her cousin did try...and then she went and hopped right back on the crazy train with her.
 
She got a free car, physical custody, child support, retirement...all things she wanted yet she is still unhappy. Hell I gave her a year of living free because I paid for everything except her gas. I put food in our home, I paid all the bills on two dwellings and what did she do? Nothing but bitch and drink when she should have been busting her ass at her job not making false accusations against me. That's why we were in court so much. It wasn't me it was her. She could have gotten a massive jumpstart. Nope, what did she do? Bitch and complain and drink. But she's got good, no great friends. None have ever done squat for her, none have ever told her to get her life together and stop posting about how she was abused and how her ex is an asshole. One woman even wrote me and said if I paid my child support on time Jennifer would be able to give my kids the world. Really? The woman has not changed since before our divorce. She was getting it an a allotment and was an arse soooo I think your missing the forest for the trees. 
 
Well just 12 more days and I close yet another chapter in my divorce nightmare. Man, the finish line is in sight and I for one...am sooo glad it is.

Email to my former spouse. Divorced, yet I'm still holding her hand.

 Jennifer,

 

 I want to ENSURE you get your money so attached is the form that you need to send along with the court order granting you 19.94% of my retirement. Now, all you need to do is print this form out, as I have filled it out for you, take it to RETIREMENT SERVICES on Ft. Knox and they can help you get it sent. If not, you can call DFAS at 1-800-321-1080 or go online at http://www.dfas.mil/ and seek additional guidance.

Again, I want to ensure this gets done as soon as possible. Now you have until the 10th of April to make this happen. I will check and if it has not been taken out on April 1st, I will send you the $623.72 in the form of a check because I don't think you can get it done between now and the 1st. Again, this is your responsibility not mine yet I'm doing my best to ensure this happens so that it is not an issue in the future. So take the attached form, go to retirement services and make sure you have the motion/court order, our divorce decree (which should have our marriage dates), marriage certificate, and any other documents that proves we were married. The DDform 2293 form explains all this on the second page too. All documents must be CERTIFIED true copies. You should be able to go to the Hardin County Courthouse and obtain certified copies if you don't have yours.

I will contact DFAS on April 13th to ensure you have done this. However, if you have not I will once again be forced to take legal action and I will ask the courts that you pay my fees since I once again am paying to ensure you get something that is solely your responsibility. So, you have all the information you need please take care of this NLT the 31st of March.

15 days and counting......

For all you sports fans out there who like hearing and reading the truth about my battles with my ex-wife. She has lied and told half truths for a very long time. Now folks will know the information that she left out. Just 15 more days and I will post the rest. Stay tuned......

Congressional Inquiry...the FACTS in black and white.

So sports fans, below is one of the Congressionals (because you know a Congressional on a military member is a big deal) that my ex requested and had done on me. I even had to get a mental health eval (because she said I was a sociopath) as well as an alcohol assessment even though she is the one with the drinking problem. The second never made it as it was thrown out once it was started. Note that I gained emergency custody of our kids the same day I paid her $1,570.00 for child support. Needless to say that afternoon when I went back to the house she DID NOT give me the money back even though I now had our child so what did she need child support for if she didn't have the kids? But you will see she felt I should pay her support. Why? she was young and healthy and more than capable of obtaining a job. Hell, she was a nursing student with a 3.8GPA no need for her to be unemployed. Make sure you read her statement and remember it because when I post the DVO's (Domestic Violence Orders) that she TRIED to get against me, the narrative changes with each one and it's not consistent with the narrative for her congressional. But I'm sure she will explain/ rationalize it all way. But any person with a high school intelligence, will surely start asking some tough questions based on claims she has made over the years. And as you see and the congressional confirms, I was already doing what I was supposed to be doing BEFORE the congressional.



“Sgt Jerome Dingle volunteered to go for a one year tour in order to avoid divorce. Once he returned he then left after 2 weeks to go to New Jersey leaving my four children once again in my care. Upon returning to Kentucky he assaulted me-convinced a police officer I had falsified a report and I was jailed. I have never been in trouble with the authorities prior to this. He went for emergency custody of the 4 children claiming I am “unfit” and an “alcoholic.” After leaving the children voluntarily for over a year he then claimed these accusations. With no evaluations and based purely on hearsay the judge took my parental rights from me and I had to vacate my home. I am now homeless. I have passed 2 professional evaluations deeming me to not be an addict. Sgt Jerome Dingle then attempted to have my 17 year old son arrested as a runaway after an argument when he physically accosted my child. My 17yr old is now with me and we are homeless and penniless. I had to pawn jewelry in order to be in the hotel I’m in until tomorrow. He had threatened my life and on Thursday April 30^th told my three younger children (ages 12-10-8) over an incident where my daughter was sent a pizza from my friend that “If you tell your mother anything- I will make it so you NEVER see your mother again.” I take that as a two folded threat. #1-he will continue to manipulate the judicial system and #2-he will follow through with his threats to kill me.

At a minimum-I am asking the military to assist me to require Sgt Dingle to provide me with shelter and money to live on.”